Make Dream Possible
Control Our Comfort Zone
When people are out of their comfort zone, they feel uncomfortable due to unknown and unfamiliar environment. By using this dynamism, we set our comfort zone deliberately by setting it as our ideal (such as, believing "I'm very capable of many things and actually earn xxxx dollars" even though the present state differs, it is important to believe that the ideal HAS ALREADY BEEN ACHIEVED.), then our 'common and comfort' self-recognition become much higher than the present state. It is very crucial to imagine our ideal situation as detailed as possible. The more detailed the imagination is, the more likely we believe in the self-hypnosis. Then pseudo contradiction arise. To the person who feels comfortable at the point much higher than the present state, the present state becomes uncomfortable, and homeostasis works on us to fill in the gap between these two settings, "I am this great person actually, so what's happening around me right now is weird." In other words, we would feel very uncomfortable to NOT being the ideal situation.
To create the pseudo excellent self and reality, the person may need to isolate himself from other people's 'objective' opinions from time to time. It is because this process of creating immersion needs independent work to imagine and create his original reality.
"Dream Killer"
For accomplishing successful outcome, people at the closest can be 'dream killer' due to their proximity. Close people like family think they know the best about other member of the family, and believe that they are able to make objective suggestion and advise. This overconfidence could incur a dream murder. Because people of the closest believe that they know the person the best by the past observation and attachment, they tend to consider him based on the past more. So the creating of new reality requires emotional, spiritual and intellectual independence.
So it is inevitable to experience long time of isolation at least psychologically for realizing individual success, and therefore it is not desirable for everyone. Myself as a twenty-three years old, enjoying being ambitious and having more than handful of things I will realize, individual success is nothing but awesome fellow always by my side. This might be an side-effect that I have been desiring reasonable isolation after experiencing intense human relation in Tokyo. In a place like there, connection is very visible and important. The quality and meaningfulness of the connection is dependent on our total accumulation of values and nourishment. The smarter we become, the smarter the relation also will be.
When people are out of their comfort zone, they feel uncomfortable due to unknown and unfamiliar environment. By using this dynamism, we set our comfort zone deliberately by setting it as our ideal (such as, believing "I'm very capable of many things and actually earn xxxx dollars" even though the present state differs, it is important to believe that the ideal HAS ALREADY BEEN ACHIEVED.), then our 'common and comfort' self-recognition become much higher than the present state. It is very crucial to imagine our ideal situation as detailed as possible. The more detailed the imagination is, the more likely we believe in the self-hypnosis. Then pseudo contradiction arise. To the person who feels comfortable at the point much higher than the present state, the present state becomes uncomfortable, and homeostasis works on us to fill in the gap between these two settings, "I am this great person actually, so what's happening around me right now is weird." In other words, we would feel very uncomfortable to NOT being the ideal situation.
To create the pseudo excellent self and reality, the person may need to isolate himself from other people's 'objective' opinions from time to time. It is because this process of creating immersion needs independent work to imagine and create his original reality.
"Dream Killer"
For accomplishing successful outcome, people at the closest can be 'dream killer' due to their proximity. Close people like family think they know the best about other member of the family, and believe that they are able to make objective suggestion and advise. This overconfidence could incur a dream murder. Because people of the closest believe that they know the person the best by the past observation and attachment, they tend to consider him based on the past more. So the creating of new reality requires emotional, spiritual and intellectual independence.
So it is inevitable to experience long time of isolation at least psychologically for realizing individual success, and therefore it is not desirable for everyone. Myself as a twenty-three years old, enjoying being ambitious and having more than handful of things I will realize, individual success is nothing but awesome fellow always by my side. This might be an side-effect that I have been desiring reasonable isolation after experiencing intense human relation in Tokyo. In a place like there, connection is very visible and important. The quality and meaningfulness of the connection is dependent on our total accumulation of values and nourishment. The smarter we become, the smarter the relation also will be.
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